Friday, October 31, 2008
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Five minutes alone
Monday, October 27, 2008
Oh, Bravo
"Top Design" happened to be on at that particular moment. Now, I don't watch nearly enough television to know much about the contestants (or even objectives) of most of these programs - however - that doesn't stop me from making a quick judgment about its content. As I watched the tail-end of this episode of Top Design - I kept thinking to myself, "How in the hell can you really JUDGE a design?" Interior decorating, in my opinion, is just purely subjective. If all four judges think someones design is utter crap, there's a chance that there are more than a few "rich-folk" who would shell out their disposable incomes for that very crap. So what makes one a professional when it comes to design? It's just art. And we all know how broad the spectrum of art can be.
This leads me to the thought I had this afternoon regarding my own passion and professional direction. I'm a student of rhetoric and theory. There have been a whole lot of theorists that I've read in my time that I've absolutely rallied against - insisting that their highly-acclaimed writing is nothing but a headache between two covers. And yet, esteemed professors that I respect and admire greatly have stressed the importance of their theoretical contributions.
All I can do is hope that those reading my latest theoretical project consider it to be substantially better than "crap." That, my dear readers, is how applying for graduate school is like being on a fucking reality show.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Lyrical posture
Thursday, October 23, 2008
My inbox
Many people have questioned why we have allowed the speakers to remain on campus. The answer is simple: we are a public institution and members of the public may speak in our outdoor areas when they are not being used for university programs or by student or university organizations.
As an institution of higher learning, Wayne State University promotes respect for all individuals. We defend each person’s right to free speech, which is a basic tenet of our society and must be protected. We may not always agree with one another but we must preserve the right of others to assert their views.
I urge you to listen courteously or simply avoid listening if that is your preference. The respect for diversity that is shown by members of the Wayne State University community is a very important feature of university life.
Sincerely,
Nancy S. Barrett
Provost and Senior Vice President for Academic Affairs
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Have you seen me lately?
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Give me the keys and I'll drive you crazy
Friday, October 17, 2008
Possible "Polignorance" and the prospect of a paramour
Human chemistry. It's a beautiful thing, isn't it? That wonderful feeling that so often is difficult to equate to much of anything. Some try to hard to make it work - experimenting day in and day out with different methods, straining profusely to find the right quantity of this to mix with that. Some labor over this seemingly endless experiment - taking years to convince themselves that coming close to the perfect chemical solution is the best they'll ever get. Some people are alright with settling for mediocrity - for respected diligence over effortless quality. I have frowned at such efforts for as long as I've witnessed them, and I swore to myself that I would rather live alone than have to labor for love.
I am fully aware that even the most intensely loving relationships involve some elbow grease and a decent amount of compromise - but all too often, people mistake the necessity for personal diversity in a relationship as surrendering your license to be loved, respected, and admired by the other on a daily basis instead of when it's convenient for them. Extenuating circumstances are simply not enough to give up the prospect of spending your time with someone who makes you happy without testing several formulas in order to do so. Those things at stake in a split: Mortgages, children, that awesome hoodie you're certain she'll keep if you dump her - grandiose to miniscule - with the right amount of effort and 100% heart, all are manageable. With so little time we have in life, there is no excuse for second-guessing or for working hard at emotions that we know can come so easily.
So what do you do when you're almost positive you've found that chemistry? How do you handle the idea that you just might be falling in love? Of course the usual answer is: Shout it from the fuckin' rooftops! Tell everyone! Tell him/her! Write sappy poems and stick them under their windshield wiper! Send them flowers, make them a mix tape - shit, the list goes on. But what if there exists more than one factor which steals away your freedom of expression? Like a thick pane of glass between two people - there they sit, tapping occasionally, pressing their hands against the cold, transparent, but solid wall - at least one, maybe both hoping that soon someone might gather enough strength to smash it to pieces. So what works? How do you reconcile that cheesy butterfly feeling every time he touches you? How do you pass off the blushing, or losing yourself in listening to him speak? How in the HELL do you escape the goddamned Disney movie you find yourself living in?
Self-promotion is ineffective - if you're genuine then it should be absolutely clear what you have to offer. Simply making a blind move to alter the circumstances (that is, without consulting the other person first) could cause long-term discomfort if the ultimate end is not achieved via the means. So, if making the case and making the move are both out of the question - all you have left is honesty, and patience - oddly enough, two of the greatest components of any healthy relationship.
And there's the one-two punch: your author is falling in love - and she's willing to wait it out. And even if it all turns out to be futile or a farce, if it's sooner rather than later - it's worth it. Ask me why, and that's an entirely different blog that would threaten to waste just as much of your time, if not more. :)